And now for a follow up question…
In a BDSM relationship do you think people should have to prove they are worth your love?
Clearly we don’t feel the same way about all the people in our lives, so either consciously or subconsciously our emotional attachment to the individual people around us can be differentiated on a spectrum.
I’m interested in how we do this, particularly interested in views around the bonds between a dominant and submissive.
For instance should a submissive prove they are worthy of receiving love from a dominant? Should a dominant prove they are worthy of receiving the love of a submissive?
Is it a question of worth at all?
Thank you everyone for your wonderful feedback on todays question. I am still going through them all and working through a post in my head. Tomorrows question may actually bring a little more context for where I am going with this….
Do you think people should have to prove they are worth your love?
Or should you love indiscriminately and without regard for the individual or what they ask of you in the name of love?
ughcookiedong My favourite meal of the day!!!
To be fair you can add bacon to any meal and it becomes my favourite meal of the day *grins*
mjames126 I love napping! I have a giant beanbag that I curl up into on warm summer days and alternate between reading and napping…
captainellipsis well best you get started! Report back before the end of the day with something you’ve done completely for yourself!
There is a “cute side” to tumblr? I thought it was all gay porn, fandoms and art?
brokenponycutiemark I hope you day gets better. You get one bone jarring hug from me to help.
Tell me one thing you’ve done completely for yourself today?
Either publicly or if it’s a little too naughty drop me a message in my inbox…
Can’t wait to hold up a “after” photo to this one in a years time or so… Still a long way to go but already showing progress…
"I said on your knees boy. Now. Do not make me ask again."
Grins… Not my best look, but I did promise to not limit myself to only photos I personally found flattering. I don’t want to be a photo grinch after all and be so strict about which photos get posted…
Even I think it might be time for a trim… or at least a cleanup of the beard.
Wow! First post to go over 1k+ notes! *blushes furiously* Thank you!
Just sitting down for lunch at our local Sushi Train… this is going to get messy very quickly. Also very fun! *grins*
Sometimes our fears shackle us in ways we don’t understand until its too late…
Perfect Friday Night…
Delicious wine, creamy soup, fresh warm crusty bread, Xena marathon and knitting… Perhaps the perfect Friday night!